The Unbearable Lightness of Being an Instagrammer

I was sitting in a conference, listening to an Instagrammer talk with pride about influence.

The example she gave? A follower had sent her a photo of her going to the exact same spot that she went and taking the exact same photo – down to the hand jauntily placed atop a straw hat – with a similar whimsical caption to boot.

She talked about how her followers have told her that they don’t even care to read about a place — they just want the picture. And that, as someone who’s always loved the written word, is a bit sad.

If you went to the Maldives and didn’t stunt for the ‘gram, did it even happen?

But she’s not wrong. A full 40% of millennials say they travel first and foremost for Instagrammability. I certainly can’t fault anyone for taking photos of their trips or themselves. But it’s the prioritization of Instagrammability over the other more rewarding aspects of travel that makes me sad.

Getting the photo shouldn’t displace seeing the destination itself. My best travel moments are often about chance happenings – special people I’ve met along the way, near-disasters narrowly avoided by kind strangers, fortuitously stumbling upon a hole-in-the-wall restaurant that ends up blowing my mind. But that isn’t what I show on my Instagram.

Is this carefree enough?

The problem with this set of priorities is that often, we go to a place with a picture already in our mind. This forecloses the openness to chance that I feel should be the very heart of travel. If we value Instagrammability over all else, I feel like we’re at greater risk of being disappointed. My dress isn’t as nice as hers, the shadows are all wrong, why does my ass look like that? 

Not the mention, I think we encourage a really unattainable version of travel: whimsical, problem-free, curated perfection. No wonder Instagram is considered by psychologists to be the worst form of social media for mental health.

Let’s take Morocco as an example of one of Instagram’s darlings. There’s no doubting that Morocco is one of the most photogenic countries I’ve traveled to: it’s pretty much Instagram crack. I see the same barrage of photos: cute outfits with a Blue City backdrop, camels winding paths through the Sahara as the sun sets, ornate doors left and right.

Sahara desert in Morocco
Desert vibes *sparkle emoji*

But I remember what a struggle traveling as a female in Morocco was for me: the constant sexualizing comments, how locals refused to give directions (in English or French) in hopes of squeezing a buck out of me, the uncomfortable night in the Sahara where I woke up to my guide just inches from my face while I slept, when I felt dangerously close to the situation approaching sexual assault.

And then I think of all the whimsical photos taken in the same places where I struggled so hard with no context given. While I don’t doubt that people can have – and have had – different, very positive experiences in Morocco, I also am fairly confident that their photos don’t tell the whole story.

Mine didn’t. It wasn’t until I sat down and poured my heart out to my blog that I felt like I had actually told the true story of Morocco, good and bad. But someone looking at my photos would have thought that everything was just magical.

I’m writing this from Canggu, Bali — which is undeniably beautiful. But I can’t help but notice how what used to be a sleepy seaside village is now basically an Instagram playground. Add a colorful wall with a dreamy saying and bam — busy every day. Add a swing, and bam — Instagrammable. I’ve literally been told at one restaurant here, before I had even looked at the menu, that I need to spend a minimum amount to take photographs. I fully intended to order a meal (and I did), but this experience really rubbed me the wrong way. 

You better like this photo, cuz it cost me 100,000 rupiah.

That’s why I think that the vast majority of Instagrammers, myself included, encourage a really unattainable version of travel. Valuing photographability rather than its other merits – its history, its culture, its potential for adventure, its food, its people – encourages a disengaged and potentially irresponsible form of travel.

It seems everyone wants to be a travel Instagrammer these days — and with paid campaigns focusing so heavily on Instagram, it’s not surprising. But the result of this is that I’ve really noticed the blurring of the line between fashion and travel, especially for female bloggers.

Wait, you mean this isn’t what Instagram wants?

Half the Instagram shots I see of women seem to be just as equally about the dress as the destination. The location almost seems to be a backdrop for their lithe bodies or beautiful clothes. Meanwhile, male Instagrammers never seem to dress up for their photos. They’re allowed to just be landscape photographers… or in many cases, they frequently feature female models who look way better in hiking clothes than any mere mortal can ever hope to look.

I’m pretty sure you’ll never see a dude carrying a change of clothes so they can have the perfect look atop a mountain they’ve just climbed, but that seems to be par for the course for female bloggers. Not only is this annoying as fuck, it also places an expectation and an undue financial burden on female Instagrammers to keep buying new “Instagram-friendly” clothes to complement the destination.

Needs more maxi dress.

I’ve literally seen Instagrammers change into dresses on a bus then hike through muddy hills for half an hour in a maxi dress. Granted, their photos were beautiful, but it seems to be a ridiculous double standard which places an undue burden on women. Not only do we have to go to cool places, but we have to look beautiful, have perfectly tousled hair, and a stunning dress (bonus points if it’s backless) to get that perfect Instagram shot. Framing a shot that you are in is simply more work, especially if you are traveling sans Instagram husband and need to frame the shot yourself with a tripod and remote. Which is fine if that is the photo you want to achieve, but I just think it’s unfair and harmful to women that this is the norm rather than the exception.

In case this comes across as someone trying to seem holier than thou, I’m just as complicit. I’ve found myself tapping to save things to my collections, hoping to replicate a cool photo. I’ve hesitated to post shots I loved that I knew would flounder on Instagram, like portraits of tobacco farmers in Cuba. I’ve found myself buying cut-out back dresses just because I know that will make my looking-away-dreamily photos just a bit better. I may or may not own a straw hat.

Straw hat, check. Off the shoulder romper, check. Now all I’m missing is a watch facing on the inside of my wrist.

Instagram is great for inspiration and discovery, don’t get me wrong. But beyond just the way it messes with our minds, I also worry that it creates an unsustainable future for travel. Take Norway’s Trolltunga, for example. The Insta-fame of this natural wonder has ballooned its annual visitors from 1,000 to 100,00 – literally, a 100x increase in a mere five years.

Other sights are similarly grappling with how to handle the impact of the Instagram generation. Zion National Park, Barcelona, Lake Louise — they’re all wondering how to handle the influx of tourism and bad behavior (littering, poor hike preparation, dangerous posing) that social media is bringing.

Confession: I bought this bright coral bikini as soon as I got invited to Maldives, just because I knew it’d be fire against that turquoise water.

Sometimes, scrolling through Instagram feels a bit like Groundhog Day. Cinque Terre. Mykonos. Marrakech. A Daniel Wellington watch. Iceland. A smoothie bowl.  The Maldives. A manicured hand cradling some latte art. And repeat.

These photos are usually presented without context — captions often seem lifted just straight from a never-ending Word document of wanderlust quotes.

I can attest that no matter how beautiful an Instagram feed looks, travel is full of ups and downs. And for those of us who call ourselves bloggers, I feel we have a responsibility to represent travel honestly and accurately – the good, the bad, and the ugly – and that the atlas has more pages than the “Explore” feature of Instagram would suggest.

6 Ways to Go Off the Beaten Path in Dublin

Ireland’s capital offers more than the stereotypes. With a little luck, it isn’t hard to get off the beaten path of Dublin’s Temple Bar district and museum circuit and into the quirkier, more adventurous side of the city.

So, if you’re bored of pub crawling your way around Dublin and swarming the sights with all the other tourists, read on to discover some of the more offbeat and unusual destinations when you travel in Dublin.

6 Ways to go Off the Beaten Path in Dublin

Check out some offbeat castles near Dublin

Become king or queen of your own castle for a day. Well, that’s a bit of an exaggeration. But you can mill about all regally in some of Dublin’s most historical constructions as you visit fantastic castles that still exude Downtown Abbey-esque elegance even to this day. If you’re interested in learning more about Dublin’s historic roots, try a living history tour at Dalkey Castle, which offers a guided tour.

If you can’t get enough of castles in Dublin, check out the north side of the city. There, you’ll find the Malahide Castle, which dates back to the 12th century. It now stands tall as the jewel in the crown of the picture-perfect town of Malahide. Check out tours and availability here.

Don’t want to even leave the city? Dublin itself boasts the magnificent Dublin Castle with a rich history to tell — right in its city limits.

Take a haunted history walking tour

Dublin is a historic city dating back to the 10th century, originally settled by Vikings. As a result, it has a long and storied — and a bit spooky — past.

If you’re interested in getting off the beaten path in Dublin, try learning a bit about Ireland’s dark side through a haunted history walking tour. Check out tour prices and availability here.

Cross the city without passing any pub.

James Joyce famously wrote in Ulysses, his love letter to the city of Dublin: “Good puzzle would be to cross Dublin without passing a pub.”

It was a rather good puzzle, it turns out — one that took nearly 100 years to solve and has only one solution. So far, people have found only one route that allows this. As a result, you’ll take a rather eclectic route through the city, passing places such as Tea Garden on Lower Ormond Quay to the fun and informative Dublin Science Gallery.

Don’t believe it’s true? Here’s a two-minute time lapse showing it’s possible.

Kayak through the city center

The river Liffey runs down the center of Dublin, and many of its most famous sites are within walking distance from its banks. It’s almost a given that you’ll cross this river at some point during your stay in Dublin.

Sure, you could walk or drive through Dublin, but why not save yourself waiting at traffic lights while seeing the city from a different angle. A kayaking trip takes about 90 minutes to travel 4 kilometers through the center of Dublin.

Descend into hell

Dublin readily offers its stranger side to those who want it. You can visit one of the most spooky places in town: the Hellfire Club atop Montpelier Hill, 1275 feet above the city. The site was once known as a site for dark arts, Satanic rituals, and debauchery.

Brave enough to take the walking tour? If you can stomach the fact that it’s now believed to be haunted by ghosts and ghouls, you’ll be rewarded with potential supernatural encounters, bone-chilling tales, and an unrivaled view of Dublin. Check tour availability and pricing here.

Take an off the beaten path Dublin tour

Once an underground subculture, Dublin’s outdoor art scene has exploded into brilliant life in the past couple of years. Today, there are more than 900 individual pieces of stunning artwork on Dublin’s walls. Seek out Rachel Joynt’s art installations and visit both the Italian Quarter and Temple Bar for some wonderful imagery.

There’s a daily free walking tour that explores the off the beaten path side of Dublin, including its street art. Check departure times here and remember that although the tour is free, you are expected to tip at the end of the tour (somewhere between 5-10 euro would be nice).

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Of course, there’s more to see and do while you’re in Dublin. To get the most out of your limited time in this unique and quirky part of the world, find a car rental around Dublin. Check out nearby musts like Giant’s Causeway, Wicklow, Connemara, and so much more out just a short drive from Dublin.

So what’s on your Dublin adventure list?

6 Stunning Places to Visit in Bali

Spectacular beaches, world-class massages, mesmerizing landscapes, outrageously delicious food… Bali is absolutely stunning. I’m writing this from a beautiful villa in Canggu, feeling safe as can be. But because of the rumblings of an angsty volcano, the tourism-driven island economy is suffering. People working in hospitality are losing their jobs left and right, and businesses are being forced to shutter. 

The reality is that while Mount Agung is active, there’s no telling when the eruption will be: it could be today, a few weeks later, or even a year from now — or it could die down completely. Stay away from the 12-kilometer exclusion zone (easy to do, as Bali is a massive island) and you’re in no danger.

So if you’re hedging on coming to Bali, let me assure you: now is a great time to visit. Your dollars will make a huge difference to an economy devastated by the decrease of tourism, and you’ll be rewarded with the least crowded Bali has been and will be for years to come. If you’re not yet convinced, here are 6 absolutely magic places to stay in Bali that are perfectly safe to visit now, volcano or not!

Live the high life in Seminyak

Seminyak is one of the great places to stay in Bali

Seminyak is one of Bali’s top luxury destinations, where the best beachfront hotels in Bali dot the shoreline and fine restaurants and boutiques line the neighboring streets. The Legian Bali is one of a handful of five-star resorts in Seminyak with an exclusive spa and lush tropical gardens, while premium dining and entertainment venues such as Ku De Ta and the Potato Head Beach Club are popular hangouts for dinner and cocktails when the sun goes down.

Besides the luxe hotels, Seminyak is also known for being the epicenter of Bali fashion, with tons of trendy and one-of-a-kind boutiques to be found. Auguste the Label and Paulina Katerina are two favorites, but there are countless more boutiques to be found in Seminyak.

Relax and unwind in spiritual Ubud

Ubud, another great place to stay in Bali

One of the main stops for travelers backpacking in Bali, Ubud is one of Bali’s most beautiful cities and the cultural heart of the island, and most people spend at least a few days in Ubud.

The sense of a home away from home can be credited to the people – the Balinese are some of the friendliest people on the planet.

Bali has become known as a yoga and wellness destination, and nowhere is that clearer than in Ubud, a hippie little city about an hour inland. Here, you can take all the yoga classes you like, cycle through the rice paddies, dine in delicious cafés, enjoy the Campuhan ridge walk, or visit temples and markets.

Ubud is renowned as the cultural haven of Bali and the place to discover art galleries, museums, dance and traditional Indonesian crafts. There’s the excellent Seniwati Gallery, which exhibits female artists, plus the Neka Museum, which showcases artworks by Balinese and international artists.

Even the drive to Ubud is a treat: tranquil terraced rice paddies sit side by side with ancient Hindu temples offering a window into the real Bali.

Even better, Ubud is a great hub for chasing some of Bali’s best waterfalls.

Visit the real “Wild Bali” in northern Lovina

The north of the island is Wild Bali and an area that’s well off the familiar tourist trail.

But if walking in lush paddy fields, strolling on peaceful black sandy beaches, trekking to waterfalls, dolphin watching, snorkelling and authentic travel are of interest, it’s well worth a journey.

The best way to experience the quieter areas of the island is to book a private local guide or driver who can tailor the trip to your tastes.

Normally, I’d recommend the area around Amed, but even though it’s outside the exclusion zone it’s still a bit close to Mount Agung for comfort. Instead, try the area around Lovina – it’s stunning and famous for its wild dolphins.

Snorkel or dive in crystal-clear waters near Sanur

While the south of Bali is blessed with world-class surf breaks for which the island is so famed, there are also several beaches with calmer waters to the north, east and west that are ripe for snorkeling and diving.

Nusa Penida, Pemuteran Bay, and Nusa Lembongan are fantastic areas of coastline and surrounding islands to snorkel, with warm turquoise waters inviting you in to explore coral gardens, coves, and tropical habitats packed with rare marine life. 

Sanur is a great base when traveling to these spots and has a handful of local dive shops which can arrange snorkeling or diving tours by boat, plus it’s home to some of the most delicious restaurants in Bali.

Get your surf on in Uluwatu

Surfers from around the world congregate in Uluwatu’s beaches, which are considered the #4 surf destination in the world.

It’s a great place to get lessons or even check out a surf camp or retreat.

If you’re not much of a surfer, Uluwatu is also home to plenty of stunning hotels with infinity pools looking out to over the ocean and countless bars serving up delicious cocktails.

Hang out in hip Canggu

Canggu is kind of like the Brooklyn of Bali — filled with yoga studios, delicious cafés serving organic and vegetarian-friendly options, and some of the best coffees I’ve ever had.

But even for all its cafés, tattoo shops, and beach bars, Canggu is still decidedly rural. Rice paddies dot the streets in between the main avenues with all their shops, studios, and restaurants. This is where you’ll find most of the hostels in Bali so you’ll be surrounded with plenty of fellow travelers.

Canggu is also a great surfer destination, with waves not nearly as intense as in nearby Uluwatu. And, bonus, Canggu is home to the stunning Tanah Lot temple, which is one of the most beautiful temples in all of Bali.

15 Unique Things to Do in Tallinn, Estonia

Tucked in the northeast corner of continental Europe, Tallinn is a true hidden gem just starting to receive its due.

Equal parts medieval and modern, this quirky city of around 400,000 people somehow manages to constantly re-invent itself, while still honoring its past.

Whether you visit in the summer high season or in the wintry cold like I did, there are countless cool things to do in Tallinn.

Give yourself enough time to explore this beautiful city, if you can. I spent five days in Tallinn in partnership with Visit Estonia, including a day trip to Lahemaa National Park.

Read on to learn all of the great things to do in Tallinn

For me, five days was the perfect amount of time to get a good feel for what to do in Tallinn, especially since I’m becoming more of a fan of slow travel these days. But others who have a more focused agenda and don’t get lured into every hipster coffee shop like I do may find they are able to cover the main sights in as little as one day or maybe two days.

What I will say is this: no matter how much time you have, be sure to explore outside of the Old Town as well as inside it, to get a real feel for modern Tallinn. Tallinn is quite compact and walkable, with excellent public transport. It’s super easy to combine a visit to Kalamaja and Telliskivi with a day of exploring the Old Town and still manage to see all of the most important things to see in Tallinn.

15 of the Top Things to Do in Tallinn, Estonia

Walk through the medieval streets of Tallinn’s Old Town

Any visit to the Estonian capital would simply not be complete without walking around the UNESCO World Heritage Old Town. Sure, it’s touristy, but it’s for a reason — this is one of the best preserved medieval cities in all of Europe. 

With 500-year-old buildings, streets that transport you straight to a fairytale past, and hidden medieval walkways full of historic houses, Old Town Tallinn has more intrigue and history in its tiny nucleus than other cities have in their entire limits. It’s definitely worth the time to go on one of the free walking tours (but be sure to tip!). Our guide was energetic and hilarious, illustrating Tallinn’s past with vibrant storytelling and giving us a great feel for the city.

There are countless buildings worth seeing. One of my favorites was the apothecary in Town Hall Square, the oldest continuously running pharmacy in the world, which has a mini-museum showing some strange medieval cures.

Let me just say this — once you see a jar full of “medicinal” sun-bleached dog feces, you’ll never complain about the taste of cough syrup again.

What to see in Tallinn Old Town: St. Olaf’s Church (which likely used to be the tallest building in Europe during the 16th and early 17th century), the Dome Church (home to some seriously strange coat of arms epitaphs), Alexander Nevsky Cathedral, and the Town Hall.

Enjoy the views from Toompea 

The Old Town of Tallinn can be broken up into two distinct parts, Lower Town (All-linn) and Upper Town (Toompea).

If you’re looking for a beautiful panorama, there’s no better area than the scenic overlooks on Toompea Hill. This 10th-century stronghold still offers breathtaking views over the city, giving a new perspective to the combination of historic charm and modern culture that thrives within Tallinn.

The edges of the medieval Old Town blend with a backdrop of high rises holding the energetic new youth of Tallinn, which has the highest startup rate per capita in all of Europe.

One of the weirdest places to visit in Tallinn, but with the best views!

Complete with multiple viewing platforms, the Estonian Parliament building, the impressive Russian Orthodox Alexander Nevsky Cathedral, the Dome Church, and a number of odd statues and alleyways, be sure to give yourself plenty of time to explore Toompea properly.

There are several viewpoints in Toompea, each with a slightly different view, and it’s worth it to seek them out in order to see Old Town from all its beautiful angles.

Find St. Catherine’s Passage

A small passage tucked away behind larger buildings, St. Catherine’s Passage houses the traditional artisans of the city. Once home to a convent and the center of learning within the city, the cobbled streets have seemingly refused to modernize. For this reason, it’s one of the top places to visit in Tallinn Old Town.

Like most of Tallinn, this passage’s architecture has largely been untouched since the founding of the city. Still, St. Catherine’s Passage somehow feels especially traditional. Handicrafts, clothing stores, and more can be found in small shops dotting the alleyway, a perfect stop for souvenir shopping.

Try an Estonian craft beer

In keeping with its hipster startup credential, Estonia has a vibrant craft beer scene. There are countless places to enjoy a great beer in the city, and most restaurants will have a decent selection of craft beer.

I loved eating at Leib because they actually have a beer and food pairing menu — including suggestions on what beers to pair with dessert (stout and creme brulee — hello, genius). I tried a delicious IPA, which went perfectly with my vegetarian sweet potato and mushroom salad.

If you really love craft beer, there are craft beer tasting tours you can do to sample the best of Estonia’s microbreweries.

Explore Soviet history at the Viru Hotel and Museum

History lesson time: Estonia was forcibly incorporated into the Soviet Union in 1940 and suffered a full 50 years of occupation. During that time, tourism in Estonia was — as you might suspect — heavily controlled. There was only one hotel where tourists in Soviet-occupied Estonia could go: Hotel Viru, run by the Soviet travel agency Intourist.

The hotel was essentially run by the Soviet secret police, with a KGB outpost occupying the entire 23rd floor. When the Soviet Union began to crumble, the 6-person KGB team fled in the middle of the night, taking what they could and destroying whatever they couldn’t.

Now, the Viru Hotel houses the KGB Museum, which has a selection of propaganda, uniforms, surveillance devices (including microphones in dinner plates – they really did think of everything), documents, and artifacts from the Soviet period. Led by a knowledgeable guide, the hotel-museum offers a peek into the Soviet past — and a stunning view of Tallinn to boot.

Admission costs 11 euros and includes a guided tour. While the cost is a bit high, it’s entirely worth it in my opinion, as this is one of the most unique things to do in Tallinn.

And it’s especially worth it for these views!

Eat Games-of-Thrones style at Olde Hansa

I’ll be honest – I didn’t have the highest of hopes for Olde Hansa. It’s a medieval-themed restaurant right in the heart of Old Town, which as a card-carrying food snob is not usually the type of restaurant I go to.

But the folks at Visit Estonia recommended we eat there and kindly provided us with vouchers, and I’m secretly so glad they did. The food was delicious, so perfectly hearty and filling on a cold day in Tallinn.

The menu will have you feeling like you’re in a tavern on Game of Thrones — I half-expected to see The Hound chowing down next to me with his elbows on the table. The restaurant offers medieval food with an impressive number of wild game options for people with adventurous palates — try the bear, boar, and elk sausages if you’re brave!

Main courses start around 15 euros and go up from there. If you’re on a budget, but still want some medieval food with a side of role-playing fanfare (who doesn’t?), III Drakon has all sorts of meat pasties and ales for much cheaper!

Get inspired by Telliskivi Creative City

As medieval as Old Town may look, modern Tallinn is innovative, creative, and playful. Nowhere can this be seen more clearly than in Telliskivi Creative City, the heart of hipster Tallinn.

Telliskivi Creative City is one of the top sights in Tallinn and is a thriving mecca within the capital, bringing in artists and shoppers alike. You’ll find industrial buildings adorned with beautiful murals, trendy street style, and Nordic-influenced design shops galore.

With over 250 different businesses calling Telliskivi home, this charming art district has something for everyone. I had to restrain myself from buying an absurd number of mugs for the kitchen I don’t have, because as my dad likes to remind everyone, I’m professionally homeless.

Marvel at the street art of Kalamaja

With Telliskivi Creative City as its “capital”, Kalamaja is the artsy residential and small business district, and the hipster nucleus of the already-hip city.

With gorgeous murals and haphazard graffiti splashed across many of the buildings, Kalamaja is a paradise for lovers of street art and good food. It’s great to walk around and explore for yourself, but if you prefer a little more direction, alternative walking tours are available.

Works of art spanning buildings more than four stories high offer a free show to anyone who walks by, while tons of cozy cafés and restaurants beckon you to come in. This is where you can find the most delicious and creative food in Tallinn!

The best restaurant I ate at during my time in Tallinn, F-Hoone, is located right next to Telliskivi Creative City.

The salmon with baked avocado, tobiko, and seaweed salad was insanely good, as was the octopus and spinach orzotto.

And because don’t forget a gin and rose lemonade (even if it’s 11:30)… because lemon’s a fruit, and juice is totally a breakfast food.

Explore the city’s coffee shops

Tallinn seems to have absorbed some of their Northern neighbors’ obsession with coffee.

There’s no shortage of adorable coffee shops and cafés located in Tallinn. One of my favorites was August, recommended to us by our walking tour guide, located just a few blocks away from Town Hall Square in the Old Town. It’s the perfect place for a cappuccino and late breakfast.

Snack and shop at Balti Jaam Market

A local favorite, Balti Jaam in Kalamaja has recently been renovated and is now a creative and vibrant place to drink, snack, and shop.

From traditional Estonian products to  Taiwanese street food vendors (the bao at Baojaam get rave reviews) to funky antiques, this market really has something for everyone if you look for it.

Bonus: you can totally creep on people’s dogs as you sit and drink a local beer.

Check out the absurdly cool Seaplane Harbor Museum

I’m a big sucker for quirky museums, and Tallinn delivers in spades.

The KGB Museum is my favorite, but the Estonian Harbor Museum, also known as the Seaplane Harbor Museum, is a close second. Before you laugh me out of here and stop taking everything I say seriously (actually, that’s probably a good idea)… just take a look at this place.

The museum’s location itself is one of its coolest draws: it’s set in an old seaplane hangar.

With over 200 different artifacts to explore, from the oldest ship in the country to an actual submarine you can board, there’s so much to see here. The museum is incredibly interactive and surprisingly fun given the potential for the subject matter to be a bit dry. Combined with a visit to Telliskivi and a walk around Kalamaja, it’s one of the best ways to spend a day off the beaten path in Tallinn.

Read More: It’s Ridiculously Easy to Fall in Love With Tallinn in Winter

Visit Kadriorg Park and Palace 

Kadriorg Palace, the 18th-century palace built for Catherine the Great, has classical Russian design credentials. Once used by the Russian royal family, it’s also taken turns at being a summer residence for Estonian rulers, the house of the first Estonian president, and is now home to a branch of the Art Museum of Estonia.

Inside, you can see a selection of foreign art from the 16th century onwards. I didn’t go inside, as I was more interested in checking out the Estonian art scene, so I went to the nearby Kumu art museum which houses exclusively Estonian artists.

They had some fascinating exhibits when I was there, including one that showed artistic responses to the 70s hippie movement through the lens of artists in Soviet-occupied Estonia and a contemporary exhibit about travel and human migration. Well worth the 8 euro admission fee.

Sample Estonian food

I was super impressed with the quality of Estonian food. I’ve traveled a lot of Eastern Europe, and while it’s one of my favorite regions in the world to travel, the food scene is often lacking (sorry, Balkan region, but if I eat another cevapcici, I just may lose it for real).

Estonia’s cuisine is rapidly evolving, with a farm-to-table focus on local and seasonal ingredients. Some of the most delicious places to get a sense of where Estonia’s food movement is heading are Leib (located in the Old Town), F-Hoone (in Kalamaja), and Umami (located outside the center). No matter where you go, you simply can’t miss Estonian black bread. It’s the most delicious bread I’ve ever had — sorry, France and your beautiful baguettes, but I will double down on that.

Estonian cuisine is also a lot more vegetarian-friendly than other places in Eastern Europe, which I warmly welcomed after two weeks of eating basically nothing but pork in Romania.

Explore the “Soviet Statue Graveyard” in Pirita

Pirita is a suburb of Tallinn off the beaten path of most tourists – it’s about a 20 minute tram ride from the center. There, you’ll want to check out Maarjamäe Castle, and right behind it you’ll find a vestige of Tallinn’s Soviet past.

Unfortunately, when I went, there was construction blocking access to the statues, as they are building a film museum there. With some clever camera zooming I was able to snap a few quick photos of this quirky courtyard, but I’d like to go back and photograph it properly in the future.

It’s one of the more unusual things to do in Tallinn, and it’s a perfect stop for people interested in Soviet history.

Escape Tallinn for a day trip to Lahemaa and the Viru Bog

Lahemaa National Park is a mere 45 minutes away from Tallinn, and it’s definitely worth a visit if you have an extra day in Tallinn. Of particular interest is the Viru bog, which has mosses dating back at least 3,000 years. You can even snowshoe across the bog, which is a ridiculous amount of fun!

The bog moss color varies throughout the year, but it’s especially beautiful in late autumn / early winter, when it turns from green to shades of deep rusty orange and red.

It’s quite easy to get there with a car, but there are tours you can join if you don’t want (or can’t) rent a car.

One of the most fun things to do in Tallinn is visit Viru Bog

Where to Stay in Tallinn

When I was in Tallinn, I was a guest at the Storytellers Nest, a dedicated blogger residence near the Old Town. So, I don’t have a firsthand hotel recommendation, but I’ve culled the best rated hotels and hostels in town, keeping location in mind, for three different budgets.

Budget (under $50 a night): Tallinn is a popular destination with backpackers along with the other Nordic capitals, so you won’t have any trouble finding a hostel in Tallinn. 16eur – Fat Margaret’s is one of the top choices for hostels, with dorm beds under $20 per night. Private rooms are also available and offer a great deal for a central location just outside the Old Town and close to the port and Kalamaja. If I was traveling solo to Tallinn it’d be my top choice – it has access to a sauna and an indoor pool! Check prices, reviews, and availability here.

Mid-range / Boutique ($50-$150 a night): Tallinn is not an especially expensive city, though it is not exactly truly “cheap,” either. You will have a lot of selection in the mid-range budget tier as this is where most hotels in Tallinn fall. Design is really important in Estonia and so you’ll find a range of excellent boutique hotels. One of the nicest boutique hotels is Taanilinna Hotel, which has beautiful rustic details, bright interiors with gorgeous light, wood-beamed ceilings, and cozy rooms. It’s also right in the Old Town so the location can’t be beat. Check prices, reviews, and availability here.

Luxury ($150+ a night): Nestled in the heart of Tallinn’s Old Town, Savoy Boutique Hotel is small but luxe, with gorgeous details, comfortable amenities like soft robes and welcome fruit, tasteful art deco designed rooms, and an in-house restaurant with rave reviews. Check prices, reviews, and availability here.

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If you're planning Tallinn city break, check out my guide to the top things to do in Tallinn. This will help you plan your Tallinn itinerary - see UNESCO-listed Old Towns, learn about its Soviet history, explore cool museums, & discover crazy street art!
 

Note: I was a guest of Visit Estonia during my time in Tallinn. As always, all opinions and experiences are entirely my own!

A Self-Guided Walking Literary Tour of Dublin for Bookworm Travelers

Nerd alert: I went to Dublin for a weekend in 2009 solely to retrace the footsteps of one of my favorite authors, James Joyce. 

Double nerd alert: I named my (male) cat Joyce after him, thoroughly confusing everyone less geeky than myself, which is to say 99% of the population.

Dublin has long been fertile territory for Irish artists, from James Joyce to Oscar Wilde to W.B. Yeats. What better place to do a literary tour?

Dublin is positively electric with the history of talented writers. I’ve rarely been in a city with such a revolutionary literary energy.

In the pre-Independence era, Irish authors were fiercely political through their work, fighting back against British colonialism with quietly subversive literature.

The vestiges of this political and literary energy remain in the city, thanks to the many historic sites that the city of Dublin has taken pains to preserve. Here are just a few favorites from my 2 days in Dublin!

Psst – wondering what to wear in the rarely-sunny Emerald Isle? This guide to what to wear in Ireland will surely help you pack.

James Joyce Statue, North Earl Street

Photo credit: PMK58, [CC BY-SA 4.0 via Wikimedia Commons]

No one has done quite so much for Dublin from a literary perspective as Mr. Joyce himself.

His classic Ulysses – a whirlwind of modernist linguistic achievement, and certainly not for the faint of heart – follows his quirky protagonist through one day in Dublin.

The book’s attention to minute detail and the characters’ interiority transform mundane daily events on a quite literally epic scale.

Likewise, Joyce’s collection of stories, Dubliners, also memorializes the various people who make Dublin, well, Dublin.

This statue on a pedestrian footpath on North Earl Street (affectionately called “The Prick with a Stick” by some) is a cheeky nod to one of Dublin’s most famous residents.

No. 7 Eccles Street Door, James Joyce Center

Perhaps the most famous door in literature, this is the original door located at the address of Leopold and Molly Bloom of Joyce’s Ulysses.

After his epic journey through the streets of Dublin, this door is the siren song calling him home.

To see this door, you’ll have to visit the James Joyce Center (read more on that below – it’s one of the best things to do in Dublin!), as this address was slated for demolition and later saved by Dublin-based artist John Ryan.

The James Joyce Center, North Great George’s Street

Photo Credit: William Murphy [CC BY-SA 3.0 via Wikimedia Commons]

Aside from the popular No. 7 Eccles Street door, this James Joyce museum also contains a lot of Joyce-inspired street art and murals, furniture from Joyce’s old apartment where he wrote much of Finnegan’s Wake, original manuscripts and letters, and some of his lesser known works, such as his children’s book.

It’s inside a beautiful 18th century Georgian-style townhouse, which adds to the magic. I don’t really believe in such new age-y nonsense, but the items in this exhibit just held such a captivating energy, as if still vibrating from the touch of a genius.

The Abbey Theatre, Lower Abbey Street

Photo Credit: Bjaglin (Flickr) [CC BY 2.0, via Wikimedia Commons]

This theatre has so many stories in its walls. Started in 1904, burnt in a fire in 1951, and rebuilt in 1966, this theatre has hosted the likes of many artists, like W.B. Yeats (who co-founded the theatre), Oscar Wilde, Sean O’Casey, and Samuel Beckett and his masterpiece, Waiting for Godot.

You can take backstage tours of the Abbey for 8 euros per person to learn more of its history: truly one of the most fascinating things to do in Dublin.

The National Library, Kildare Street

Photo Credit: Mike Peel [CC BY-SA 4.0, via Wikimedia Commons]

This is one of the most beautiful libraries I’ve ever been to, and with the friendliest staff to boot. I really enjoyed speaking with one of the security guards there, who had so much knowledge about the building and the exhibit to share with me.

When I was there back in 2009, there was an outstanding collection of W.B. Yeats’ original manuscripts, including a beautiful print of his poem, “The Isle of Innisfree.” Be sure to check out what exhibitions are currently being displayed! As a bonus, the exhibitions are always free!

The Gresham Hotel

Photo Credit: Ardfern [CC BY-SA 3.0, via Wikimedia Commons]

The Gresham hotel is the setting of Joyce’s final story in the Dubliners collection, “The Dead.” Sit in the hotel bar of the Gresham and ruminate on one of the most powerful lines of prose in the English language:

His soul swooned slowly as he heard the snow falling faintly through the universe and faintly falling, like the descent of their last end, upon all the living and the dead.

Trinity Library

Photo Credit: Diliff [CC BY-SA 4.0, via Wikimedia Commons]

The nearly 200-foot-long room (aptly named “the Long Room”) is perhaps the most photographed library in the world – and with good reason. It’s also home to the Book of Kells, one of the most ornately decorated and beautiful manuscripts ever preserved. It contains chapters from the New Testament and dates all the way over 1,200 years.

Literary Walking Tours, The James Joyce Center

This isn’t something I did when I was in Dublin, but boy, do I wish I had! There are four different options of various walking tours you can take around Dublin, each with a different theme. From a revolutionary writers walking tour to a Joycean pub crawl, you can get your nerd on while taking in the beautiful sights of Dublin by foot. As a bonus – walking tours are great for meeting fellow solo travelers!

Marsh’s Library

This library has been unchanged for over 300 years. You won’t find The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo here — all these books were published before the 18th century. It’s a marvel to walk through. Luckily, my friend Stephanie created a beautiful video walking you through this historic literary gem, a must on any Dublin literary tour.

 

Where to Eat for Book Lovers: Chapter One

A literary themed restaurant? Only in Dublin, it seems. The aptly named Chapter One restaurant is a Michelin star restaurant under the Ireland’s Blue Book umbrella, a collection of restaurants, country homes, and properties with historical charm and value. It’s actually located just below the Dublin Writer’s Museum, an excellent stop to make on your literary tour of Dublin.

The food is farm-to-table and seasonal, plated beautifully, and offers a great value. They have three course prix fixe theater dinners – perfect, as the Gate Theatre is a few steps away.

  

I was especially impressed by the “flavors of milk and honey” dessert – truly outstanding – and their cocktail selection. The artichoke with peach and mint pesto was another favorite – the plating was so beautiful. The prices are fair for the quality and quantity of food, so I recommend their theatre prix fixe highly!

Recommended Reading for Dublin Lovers

 

Note: This post contains affiliate links. That means that if you purchase something using one of these links, I will receive a small commission at no added cost to you. No BS – I only recommend accommodations, services, and products I truly believe in. Note that the majority of these photos are from Creative Commons – I’ve long since lost my photos of Dublin. Finally, I was a guest of Chapter One on behalf of Ireland’s Blue Book during my second visit to Dublin. All opinions on the meal, however, are entirely my gluttonous own!

17 Quirky & Cool Things to Do in Bucharest

Equal parts gritty and pretty, Bucharest has some tricks up its sleeve. It’s a city that rewards you for taking your time and experiencing it slowly.

Frankly, its main sights — the Palace of the Parliament, for one — aren’t the real draw.

Bucharest tends to be a quick stop on everyone’s Romania itinerary – they give it a quick pass before going to the more charming fairy-tale towns and cities in Transylvania.

What’s best about Bucharest is the way it slowly reveals itself to you over time.

Hidden cafés, forgotten architectural gems on tucked away corners, and quirky bars that are hard to find are all the things make this oft-bypassed capital city so unique.

It’s not as easy as just ticking the main things to do off a Bucharest checklist, the way you might in Paris or London.

But if you’re the kind of traveler who’s a sucker for hidden gems, you may just find yourself drawn to Bucharest’s faded grandeur, eccentric shops, and understated charm.

While I highly recommend getting lost (a cheap Uber is never far away, and are much more reliable than the price-gouging taxis), if you’re one of those travelers who needs a spot of guidance, here are a few of my favorite things to do in Bucharest.

My top things to do in Bucharest

Explore the beautiful bookstores

There are many reasons to visit Bucharest, but number one should be its excellent book stores!

Carturesti is a small Romanian chain of bookstores. Their most famous and perfectly picturesque branch, Carusel, is conveniently located right in the heart of Bucharest’s (not so) Old Town, on Lipscani Street.

While Carturesti Carusel is more Insta-famous, I actually preferred the Verona branch near Piata Romana.

It’s tucked into a historic former home, full of different rooms and levels with stairs that squeak and rooms that have that lovely, musty book smell that is an aphrodisiac to nerds everywhere.

Every room and level felt like another little hidden gem – some full of books, others knickknacks and clothes.

Unwind in the Cismigiu Gardens

I’ve been to nearly every Balkan capital city so far, and Bucharest is by far the most frenetic and busy, especially the nonstop traffic coursing through the city.

Luckily, there are plenty of green spaces not far from Bucharest’s Old Town: my favorite being Cismigiu Gardens, which I’d say is kind of like Bucharest’s Central Park. Full of fountains, monuments, and bridges, this charming spot is especially beautiful in autumn.

Have a coffee or tea in one of many outdoor café-gardens

Just look for the word “gradina” — Romanian for garden — and you’ll find a series of tucked-away little cafés and bars nestled in alleyways just off the beaten path.

A few of my favorites were Gradina Verona (right by the Carturesti near Piata Romana), Gradina Eden, and Serendipity Tea House: having a cup of coffee in these gardens was one of my favorite things to do in Bucharest.

A note: smoking is quite common in Romania (and the rest of Eastern Europe), so if you’re particularly sensitive to smoking you have some trouble.

I personally don’t mind, but others I were traveling with mentioned this bothered them. Something to keep in mind!

See the oddly misguided Memorial of Rebirth in Memorial Square

Memorial Square is the site where the Romanian Revolution took place in 1989, where Nicolae Ceaușescu gave his last address amidst mass protests rising all around Romania and then fled by helicopter, before he was executed days later.

The statue was erected in this place in 2005, with mixed emotions. Many Bucharest residents either view the memorial with indifference or disdain.

Some think it’s too abstract and doesn’t properly memorialize the thousand plus lives lost during the revolution. The younger generation seems not to care at all, and have turned the statue’s surrounding plaza (piata) into an after hours skate park.

Four years back, a man shot the statue with a red paintball, and the paint has never been removed.

I like to think it makes the memorial look like a brain on a spike (others say a bloody potato).

I doubt either is the artist’s intention, but it’s a quirky point of interest in Bucharest all the same.

Tip: If you’re interested in tracing Bucharest’s communist history through its architecture, I recommend doing a Communism-themed walking tour.

See the burgeoning street art scene

Local street art in Bucharest, a real hidden gem

Bucharest isn’t widely known for its street art, but if you stray outside the center just a tad you’ll find a ton of interesting murals near Piata Romana.

Strada Arthur Verona is probably the most decked-out street of all, with a few interesting walls of murals.

If you start by the Carturesti and work your way east, you’ll see plenty of interesting street art by a variety of graffiti artists and muralists alike.

My favorite street art murals, however, are done by Sweet Damage Crew, who create some really next-level street art.

Two are within walking distance of Piata Romana and should not be missed! Definitely one of the top things to do in Bucharest.

Side note: If you’re interested, this is the exact walking tour that I did.

Checking out the local street art is one of my top things to do in Bucharest

See a slice of the real Old Bucharest

Once considered “Little Paris” for its wide boulevards and Art Nouveau architecture, the 20th century was not kind to Bucharest.

First World War II, then a brutal period of Communism, then a rough period of rebuilding: it’s no wonder Bucharest is a little rough around the edges.

Still, there are bits and pieces of Bucharest’s storied past hiding behind the buildings in disrepair.

Hidden in plain sight, Curtea Veche – the old court of Bucharest – is chilling just a few blocks from the raging Bucharest nightlife scene that marks most of Bucharest’s Old Town.

Quiet and peaceful, this court was actually constructed by Romania’s most famous “villain” – Vlad Dracula, aka Vlad the Impaler, as a summer residence before Bucharest became the political and economic hub it is today.

If you want to ensure you understand the history of Bucharest, there are free walking tours available daily.

Curtea Veche, the old court, a top thing to do in Bucharest

Photograph the famous “Umbrella Alley” (Pasajul Victoriei)

Oh, Instagram — it’s so weird how predictable we are because of you.

Throw up a few colorful umbrellas and watch every tourist who’s in Bucharest pop by for a photo. This isn’t really a “hidden gem” anymore, and is quite easy to find as it’s right on Calea Victoriei, but hey! It fills out a list and it’s pretty! If you’re obsessed with Instagram, this is probably one of the first places to go in Bucharest.

Get away from it all at Therme Spa

City noise got you down? I hear you. Whether you want to sweat out your hangover from last night in the Old Town (I’m not telling you to not go to the Shoteria, but you probably shouldn’t go to the Shoteria), or you just want to relax and unwind, Therme is luxury writ large — really large.

As in, it’s the “biggest relaxation, wellness, and indoor entertainment center” in Europe big. And, since it’s right by the airport, it’s the perfect spot to unwind before your flight home.

Therme, one of the places to visit in Bucharest
Photo credit to Maggie Garvin, since I am a deadbeat who can’t get out of bed

I personally never made it there, because I suck at life, but if I ever return to Bucharest I know that’s where I’ll be spending one of my afternoons.

Indulge in “third wave” coffee culture

f you want to feel like you’re in Brooklyn in the heart of Bucharest, head on down to Origo, where you can have delicious freshly roasted beans done any way you like it, even with your choice of origin (the day I went, espresso bean options were from Nicaragua and Ethiopia). Artichoke also has delicious coffees, with cute Scandinavian-inspired design.

What can I say? Hipster coffee shops make me feel all warm and fuzzy inside.

Drinking coffee, one of the top things to do in Bucharest

Try the Romanian version of a donut at La Mama

I’ll admit, after nearly three weeks in Romania eating nothing but Romanian food, I’m not a big fan of their cuisine (I might well cry if I see polenta ever again). However, their desserts are a whole ‘nother story.

The papanasi at La Mama is EVERYTHING. It is so simple yet so, so good.

A mouthwatering fried piece of dough, doused with sour cream and tart cherry jam, topped with a cute little donut-hole hat and garnished with a slice of orange. Absolutely delicious. For sweet tooths, it should be #1 on your list of things to do in Romania!

Explore the unique architecture nearby Piata Romana

The wealthiest neighborhood of Bucharest is just to the east of Piata Romana. There you can see tons of interesting architecture unlike anything I’ve seen anywhere else.

A mix of Ottoman, traditional Romanian, and Western styles, the architecture in this part of Bucharest is truly unique.

Visit the Romanian Athaeneum

Located right on Calea Victoriei just a few minutes’ walk from the Memorial of Rebirth, this is another one of those “hidden in plain sight” places to visit in Bucharest.

From outdoors, the building looks lovely yet understated, but it hides a major architectural beauty inside.

Photo credit: Flickr

Being the terrible travel blogger that I am, I had no idea you could go inside until after I left (d’oh!) so learn from my mistake: you can go in as long as there’s no practice ongoing!

See a slice of Little Paris at Pasajul Vilacrosse

Photo credit: Flickr

Passajul Vilacrosse intersects with Calea Victoriei right before Lipscani (if you’re walking from any point North, that is) and is so understated you might miss it the first pass or two.

Inside are just a few restaurants and stores, but its old-school charm will have you understanding Bucharest’s former nickname of Little Paris — the arcade style is definitely reminiscent of France in the 19th century.

Get a taste of nostalgia at the Kitsch Museum

I didn’t get a chance to visit this museum, but since it perfectly fits the off the beaten path theme of this post I couldn’t help but include it.

My friends Kate and Jeremy of Our Escape Clause were kind enough to send me a photo, though, so you can see the quirkiness! It’s located right in the Old Town, so it’s worth giving it a peek if strange museums full of cultural oddities are up your alley.

Taste some Romanian craft beer

My friend Megan got my interest piqued in Romanian craft beer after reading her guide to craft beer in Timisoara. On my first night in Bucharest, I popped into Fabrica de Bere Buna (literally, Factory of Good Beer) and tried a few of the local beers.

They sell several types of craft beer both on tap (my favorite — I hate buying bottled beer at bars, it just feels stupid) and in bottles.  Their house beer, Zaganu, which is an unpasteurized IPA, was my favorite. A lot of the places in the Old Town can be a little too popular with the “lads on tour” crew, so I also enjoyed the more subdued atmosphere.

If you’re interested, this is the exact walking tour that I did.

Note: If you want a more structured beer experience, this beer and walking tour looks like an excellent introduction to Romanian craft beer with a side of history and architecture – and some traditional beer snacks, of course.
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Éclairs to die for

Bucharest’s nickname is Little Paris because it has the best éclairs ever. Okay, well, the second part may not be true, but word on the street is that French Revolution serves up the best desserts in all of Bucharest.

I wasn’t able to go during my time in Bucharest but didn’t stop hearing about them — guess that means I know where my first stop is if I return.

See Bucharest’s own Arc du Triomphe

Further upping the “Little Paris” claim to fame is Bucharest’s Arcul di Triumf, a replica of Paris’s famous Arc du Triomphe on the Champs-Elysees.

This is actually the arch’s third iteration. It was originally built in a hurry in 1878 to celebrate the Romanian independence movement’s victory. Later, a temporary arch was built on that same site post-World War I, which was later torn down and re-erected for the third and final time in 1936.

It’s an interesting oddity, but it’s a bit far away from downtown, so I’d recommend taking an Uber if you want to see it (it should cost you about $2.50 each way)

Things to Know Before Visiting Bucharest

  • Taxi scams in Bucharest are the worst I’ve experienced anywhere but Vietnam. I literally even had one man lie to us, saying he’d use the meter, then refuse to use it. After we left his cab, he shouted at us angrily, sped down the street, and then literally threw a bottle of water on us as we walked past. Use Uber, Taxify, or CleverTaxi instead – SIM cards in Romania are as cheap as can be.
  • Romania uses the Romanian language, which is closely related to other Latin-derived languages like Italian. If you speak a romance language, you’ll recognize plenty of words in Romanian.
  • That said, virtually all young people and people working in tourism speak excellent English
  • Bucharest is well-connnected and a great gateway to the rest of Romania; check out these other gorgeous fairy-tale destinations in Romania 
  • Bucharest has some issues with stray dogs. The situation has improved dramatically in recent years (thought their tactics several years back when it comes to reducing the stray dog population is frankly pretty upsetting). Many dogs have been vaccinated and fixed and will have a tag on their ear indicating that. Be careful when approaching street dogs as not all are as friendly as they look.
  • Traffic in Bucharest is nothing short of insane and crossing the road is a challenge. Book travel insurance before you go – I use and recommend World Nomads for all my  Eastern Europe travels.

Where to Stay in Bucharest

Budget: After having a bad experience with the owner of Pura Vida and Little Bucharest, I cannot in good conscience recommend them to other travelers, especially solo female travelers. Instead, I would recommend Funny Hostel (8.2 rating on Booking.com) or Friends Hostel (also an 8.2 rating on Booking.com).

Mid-range: Omega House is a gorgeous boutique hotel (which also has a few dormitory style rooms if you are a solo traveler), with excellent design and a great co-working space where you can take full advantage of Bucharest’s lightning fast WiFi. It’s located nearby Piata Romana, my favorite neighborhood in all of Bucharest (and where a majority of these recommendations are located). With a 9.0 rating on Booking.com (read reviews here), I’d highly recommend this for travelers who want a step above a hostel without paying a fortune.

Luxury: I stayed at the Grand Hotel Continental during my time in Bucharest and I can’t recommend it enough. The rooms were gorgeously furnished and the bed was insanely comfortable. The bathroom and room itself were large and spacious, and I loved being only a 10-minute walk away from the Old Town (as staying in the Old Town itself is super loud with drunk people at all hours of the night). Highly recommended and has a 9.0 rating on Booking.com from others.

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27 Actually Useful Travel Gifts for Female Travelers (& Everyone, Really)

For someone who loves making lists far in advance of when it’s appropriate to, it’s kind of weird that I haven’t already made a mega-post of travel gift ideas yet.

That’s probably because I’m a bit of a self-admitted Grinch. The stress of Christmas gets me every year – I hate the obligation of buying presents and often wait until noon on the 24th to run out to the department stores, grab a few scarves, and call it a day.

But you’re probably a better person than I am, and maybe you’ve decided that you’re looking for some unique yet useful travel gifts that your intrepid traveling friend, daughter, or sister could use.

So, without more of my needless rambling, here are my top ideas for gifts for female travelers that they’ll actually use (written by a former carry-on only traveler – so I know how much usefulness and portability matters).

NOTE: This list was created by a female traveler with women & femme travelers in mind — but I’m sure men and nonbinary people will enjoy the majority of items on this list as well!

Useful Travel Gifts & Stocking Stuffers (Budget)

Lush Seanik shampoo

I’m a huge fan of LUSH solid shampoo and have tried a few different ones (Seanik wins out, though). I have fine hair that easily gets greasy: LUSH shampoos are not only great for travel, they’re just great period — I’d use them even if I wasn’t traveling all the time.

Plus, they’re packaging-free, and any reduction in plastic is a great thing in my book. Don’t forget to grab a reusable metal tin!

Note: I have to mention that if you buy this in-store at your nearest LUSH it’s almost half the price – this Amazon link is for convenience.


 

Tiger Balm

Tiger balm is basically the traveler’s cure-all.

Whether it’s sore muscles from lugging around a backpack, mosquito bites from leaving the windows open on a muggy night without AC, a persistent cold, or a wicked headache from last night’s ill-advised drinks, tiger balm will always help out with aches and pains.


 

Contoured sleep mask

Guys. This sleep mask is seriously a game-changer. I’m actually on my third one because I keep leaving them behind but can’t imagine living without one anymore.

It’s contoured, meaning that the sleep mask doesn’t press down on your eyes while still shutting out all the light. It’s perfect for anyone who has trouble sleeping or is light sensitive. A good night’s sleep is one of the most useful travel gifts you can give!


 

Cute laundry bag

Let’s talk realness: having a place to store your dirty laundry while you’re on the road, while not exactly sexy, is super important.

You don’t want your loved one to resort to doing the sniff test on everything, right? Uh, not that I ever do that. A cute laundry bag keeps dirty clothes separate and will be used basically every day on the road, which is what you’re aiming for when you’re picking out a practical travel gift!


 

Rollable down jacket

An ultra-light down jacket is one of my top picks – I had one from Uniqlo that lasted me several years and I recommend that one as well (but it’s a bit steep at $70).

This one

is a bit cheaper but still super useful.


 

Travel pillow

Adorable? Yes. Ridiculous? Maybe. Useful? Undoubtedly.

While I’m a fan of just your average U-shaped travel pillow that you’d find overpriced at any airport store, it doesn’t exactly make the most thoughtful travel gift. This adorable travel pillow, though, actually converts from a stuffed animal to a neck pillow! It’s unique while still being a useful travel present.


 

Universal travel adapter

This is a great gift to give a first-time international traveler or even a frequent traveler. After all, we’ve all lost an adapter from time to time — it never hurts to have a spare, especially when they’re compact like this one.

This adapter will cover virtually every country. I especially love having multiple USBs so I can charge 3 devices simultaneously (#bloggerproblems).


Power bank

I need three things from my power bank — lightweight, more than one USB port, and can hold several charges in a row because I’m horrible at remembering to charge my power bank.

The Anker does all that and at under $25 to boot.


Travel Between the Lines

Note: my friends Katie and Geoff over at Wandertooth created this, so I may be a bit biased!

If your traveling friend or relative is into adult coloring books, I can’t think of a better gift than this coloring book. Each page was hand-drawn from a photo they took along their travels, so this makes a great and unique present.


LensPen

If your friend has a DSLR, mirrorless, or any kind of nice travel camera — you’ll want to grab them this cheap and super useful gift. Even if they already have one, it’s useful to have a spare so you can keep one in every bag.

I’ve seen firsthand how smudges and bits of dust can ruin otherwise beautiful travel photos and videos. A LensPen is a great way to keep that from happening.


Useful Travel Gifts (Mid-Range)

Filter water bottle

Thinking of what to get an eco-conscious traveler or someone’s who traveling a bit off the beaten path?

There are now reusable filtered water bottles which get rid of nasties (bacteria, viruses, parasites, chemicals) in tap or standing water.

This lets you drink the water in places like Mexico, Thailand, etc. where you normally have to rely on bottled water. Multiple clinical trials guarantee this gets rid of over 99.99% of parasites and bacteria. It can be used 1,000 times before the filter needs to be replaced and can save a fortune on bottled water.


 

JOBY Tripod

This is the perfect gift for a solo traveler or really any traveler who’s getting serious about their photography. Good for “selfies” or long-exposure photography.

This tripod is great because it’s extremely small and easy to fit in most bags while still being versatile enough to help you get the shots you need.

It’s rugged and great for taking photos on unsteady terrains (traditional tripods need flat ground), and you can set the JOBY to grip trees, railings, etc. if you want a different perspective.


 

Packing cubes

If you’re looking for a good gift for a light or first-time traveler, one of the best gifts you can give is the gift of organization. There’s nothing more frustrating than having your clothes be a jumbled mess when you’re trying to pack or get dressed quickly.

Packing cubes

keep everything sleek and organized and save a ton of space, plus they come in all sorts of different colors for personalization. Here’s a guide to some of the best packing cubes.


 

External hard drive

An external hard drive is essential for travelers, especially those who like to take lots of photos. But it’s not exactly the most thoughtful or sexy of gifts.

What I’d recommend is buying an external hard drive, then finding a few movies, albums, e-books, photos, etc. to stick on it so that there’s a sweet little surprise when they open it. Both thoughtful and super useful!


Aeropress coffee maker

For the discerning coffee snob and travel fiend in your life, there’s probably no better gift than the Aeropress.

This isn’t just a “travel coffee maker” – the Aeropress was my primary coffee maker when I lived in my tiny NYC apartment, because the quality of the coffee it makes is first-rate.

It’s also super compact and easy to travel with, and I’ve brought it with me on many a trip.

It’s a fantastic gift for van life travelers who want an easy but delicious way to make a cup of coffee (that, most importantly, won’t take up a lot of space!)

Not quite the right gift? Check out these other gifts for coffee lovers.


Atlas Obscura

Atlas Obscura

is one of my favorite resources for looking up quirky, little-known gems even in the most well-traveled places.

While I usually surf online, there’s no denying that if I had a long-term home this would be one of my favorite coffee table books for browsing for new and undiscovered places.


Scratch-off map

For the country counter in your life who loves to document and track their travels, a scratch-off map is the perfect travel gift for them to decorate their home with.


Infinity scarf with hidden pocket

Goodbye, ugly money belts that should have never been a thing.

This cute infinity scarf – created by a travel blogger, so you know its useful – will hold things like your keys, money, ID, and a few essentials near and dear to you where it’s almost impossible to lose. Great if you’re worried about pickpockets or theft, or if you just don’t want to carry a purse.


Diva Cup

Okay, this present might be a bit personal for some, so it depends on the closeness of your relationship.

However, my little sister got me a Diva Cup for Christmas two years back and I’ve never looked back since. The Diva Cup is AMAZING for travelers (and pretty much everyone, in my opinion). It severely cuts back on waste, saves you money, and can come in handy when you’re trying to find tampons in places where they are hard to find, like Southeast Asia.


Theftproof but stylish backpack

While a small backpack is one of the most convenient ways to carry around your daily essentials while you travel, the fact that you can’t keep your eye directly on it means that you are at an increased risk of theft.

After nearly getting pickpocketed (pick-backpacked?) in Hanoi — luckily my savvy friend noticed what the man was doing and slapped his hand away — I swore to not wear a daypack unless it had some theftproof features, like locking zippers. Mine is from Pacsafe but it’s out of stock. This backpack from Travelon has RFID blockers, locking zippers, and slash-resistant materials.


Useful Travel Gifts (Splurge)

Tinggly Gift Experiences

One of the best gifts you can give a picky travel-lover is the opportunity to treat themselves to any one of a variety of adventures on their next journey! From tasty food tours to cave kayaking, there’s a Tinggly gift experience for every type of traveler.

Their Superwoman package lets your favorite female traveler pick from one of 560+ experiences in over a hundred countries — and you don’t have to worry about it expiring, because your gift recipient has five whole years to redeem their experience. Check out experiences & buy your gift box here!


Kindle Paperwhite

If you know someone who’s a huge reader, but hasn’t invested in a Kindle yet — this is a super useful travel gift.

I used to think that I’d never want an e-reader, that I loved books too much to help contribute to the death of print culture. Then I backpacked around Europe for 5 months and changed my mind entirely. No matter how much you like physical books, it can be hard to find a good variety of English-language options in other countries (plus, books are heavy). Load up the Kindle with one or two favorite travel-related (or not related) reads, or perhaps a PDF of a Lonely Planet to whereever they’re going on their next trip, to make the gift a little more personal.


Instax mini

The Polaroid for the Instagram generation.

Perfect for travelers who love candids and in-the-moment snaps, the Instax mini is a portable and affordable addition to their travel gear.


Noise-cancelling headphones

If the thought of shelling out for a pair of Bose headphones makes you want to weep, these headphones are a great alternative.

They nearly saved my life on the bus ride from hell — the noise-cancelling factor is quite good, and they’re way more comfortable than your standard in-ear buds.


Ultra-light yoga mat

If you know a yoga-lover who’s also a frequent traveler, a portable yoga mat is a great idea. This one literally folds up to the size of a newspaper!

Of course, the YOGO mat won’t replace a perfectly squishy roll out mat, but it’s great for yoga on the go. I’ve used it personally and the mat is “sticky” like you want it to be, and is a big improvement over doing yoga without a mat – though it doesn’t provide the most cushioning.


Useful Travel Gifts (The Big Bucks)

DJI Spark

I personally bought the DJI Spark and it’s a fantastic starter drone.

The Mavic is wayyy more powerful and to be honest, I’ll likely upgrade in the future. But if you’re looking for a powerful yet compact and affordable drone, nothing can beat the DJI Spark at this price point, or for a bit more, the Fly More combomore than doubles the range of the Spark.


Sony A6000

Easily one of the most powerful cameras in this price range, the Sony A6000 is the only camera I personally use (though I’ve upgraded from the kit lens).

It takes super detail-rich photos and performs great in low light. It has all the power of a DSLR camera in a camera that weighs less than a pound. Plus, you can upgrade it as you go with different lenses, meaning it’s the kind of camera that can grow with you for years. I personally don’t like fixed-lens cameras — their usefulness is limited and I got rid of my Fujifilm X20 after less than a year.


DJI Osmo Mobile

Great for the video lovers in your life, the DJI Osmo Mobile is one of my favorite pieces of equipment.

It elevates standard iPhone footage to a professional quality — I’ve made some fantastic travel videos using just an iPhone and the Osmo.

Note: This post contains sponsored content from Tinggly, who reached out to me about their Tinggly gift experiences. I genuinely think it is an awesome gift for female travelers, which is why I included it, but I’m disclosing this for transparency.

Bandos Island Resort: A Surprisingly Eco & Affordable Maldives Paradise

I used to think that the Maldives were as expensively inaccessible as they were undeniably beautiful. In my mind, it was reserved for a honeymoon: something that made this marriage-skeptical commitment-phobe itch to think of.

After becoming a travel blogger, my eyes were opened to the expansive world of budget travel in the Maldives: local islands, public ferries, locally-owned guesthouses on Airbnb.

But what I never realized until I actually arrived in Maldives was that there was something in the middle: a way to enjoy a traditional resort experience without spending your entire life’s savings.

Something that couldn’t quite be classified as “budget” – but that you wouldn’t have to steal from your theoretical future child’s college education fund to afford.

That place, my friends, is Bandos Island Resort, a mere 10-minute speedboat from Malé Airport but with some of the bluest waters and whitest sands you can dream up.

While I was a guest at Bandos Island Resort thanks to the sponsorship of the World Travel Writers Conference in the Maldives, I was shocked to learn how affordable this resort is for the average middle-class traveler, especially if you travel off-peak.

Cost of Staying at Bandos Island Resort

Even in February, one of the busiest months, the cheapest double room is about $280 per night (with breakfast only included). But travel off-peak in a month like June or July, and you’ll be rewarded: that same double room is only $172 with breakfast ($337 full-board for two people).

** Note: I looked up these rates on booking.com while writing this article — prices will likely change, but were true at time of writing. Also note that these prices are not inclusive of the 22% tax that is mandatory on all stays and purchases in Maldives **

Now, I’m not trying to say that these prices are budget-friendly for everyone, but let’s put these numbers into perspective. I’ve seen average motels in Moab, Utah go for well over $200 a night. You’d be hard-pressed to find a decent hotel room in central NYC or London for under $300. Now, I love me a good city, but I’d take a week in Maldives over a week in gray London anyday!

Just look at those island blues.

Be aware: the rainy season in the Maldives is technically from May to October. I went in September, was there for two weeks, and never had more than 10 minutes of rain spread over a few different days.

However, I was told that right before my arrival, there had been several days of super stormy weather — so be prepared if you choose to travel in the off-season!

Bandos’ proximity to the Malé airport is part of what makes it so affordable. If you add in a seaplane, no matter how affordable the resort is, you’re looking at an extra $500 or so on top of your stay… Ouch. So if you want a budget-friendly trip to Maldives, make sure you look at hotels that are within a speedboat transfer’s distance of Malé and be sure to ask about the transfer cost before booking anything.

At the moment, Bandos charges $76 return for a speedboat transfer per adult, which is rather reasonable (in the alternate universe that is the Maldives!)

Cost of Activities at Bandos Island Resort

One of the other things that makes Bandos so affordable for a Maldives resort is the relatively low cost of activities. A half day snorkeling or island hopping trip will cost $45 plus tax.

A sunset dolphin cruise, like the one in the photo below, will cost about $40 (plus tax) for a several hour long boat ride.

They also have a fantastic dive center on Bandos – I went diving with them three times and saw so many amazing creatures in their house reef (you can also borrow a snorkel set and snorkel right from the beach, if that’s more your speed)

The boat dives were even better, though! We went to Aquarium, where you can see massive schools of brightly colored fish plus beautiful corals, anemones, and others. But one of the highlights was our second dive, where we went diving with enormous manta rays swirling above and below us. I was shocked when one went right above me and I could see through its gills to the water above it.

Dives cost $62 plus tax per dive with all the equipment included, plus a $18 supplement if you choose to do a boat dive. If you’re a diving fanatic, you can even buy a package of 10 dives for $500, making them $50 each — a good value if you can fit them all in!

Sustainability at Bandos Island Resort

You may think there’s no way a resort in the Maldives can be eco-friendly… but Bandos is doing its best with some innovative and sustainable initiatives.

The #1 thing Bandos is doing to combat waste is through their bottling plant, which is located on-island and was established in 2015. Reusable glass bottles are pressure-washed, sanitized, and rinsed before being filled with purified, filtered water. Since the average daily consumption of bottled water is 800 liters, the water bottling plant is able to save the disposal of over 288,000 plastic bottles per year.

Other initiatives to reduce waste include a Solarhart system to heat water, which reduces the energy needed to heat water by 80-90%. They’re also in the process of constructing an entirely on-island sewage treatment plant that produces clean reusable water with low energy outputs.

A hydroponic garden fed by recycled water reduces reliance on imported produce (a huge resource suck in an isolated island nation like Maldives).

They’ve also signed the Biosphere Reserve Pledge with UNESCO as of 2016, agreeing to reserve 800 square meters of the Bandos House Reef — which is one of the healthiest house reefs I’ve ever seen, remarkable given its proximity to Malé. They’ve initiated several coral gardening programs that naturally rehabilitate damaged but live coral.

So, if you think Maldives is out of your budget — think again. One week at a Maldives resort could actually end up costing you less than a week in Paris, London, or NYC.

Intrigued? Check the most recent and lowest prices on Booking.com now!

Think resorts in the Maldives are too expensive? You might be surprised at what they actually cost!

Note: I was a guest of Bandos Island Resort while I attended the World Travel Writer’s Conferences sponsored by Maldives TV. All opinions expressed are entirely my own. Also, this post contains affiliate links, which may make me a small commission at no extra cost to you.

Exploring the Wines of Turkey in Bodrum

Let me set the stage for you.

You’re in a beautiful port town, overlooking a harbor of hundreds of boats and yachts bobbing in the Mediterranean. Reaching out into the sea is a castle from the early 1400s. In the distance, next to the setting sun, you can see the Greek island of Kos.

There’s a pool overlooking the sea, and chairs where you can laze in the fading September sun, and oh, not to mention some of the most delicious food and wine in all of Turkey.

Do you ever leave? If your answer is no, thank you for justifying my laziness in Bodrum. Cheers to you.

I had big plans for Bodrum: I was going to walk to the castle, lie on the beach, visit the underwater archaeology museum….

… but that all floated away with my first balcony sunset.

The funny thing about being a travel blogger is that sometimes, the last thing you want to do is travel. Having seen Istanbul, Cappadocia, and Pamukkale in the course of about a week… I was ready to chill.

Luckily, the Marmara in Bodrum was the perfect place to do just that. I mean, just look at that pool and those views. It’s kind of criminal not to spend time at the hotel, no?

My time at the Marmara was basically spent sunning myself, popping into this beautiful pool, and slowly working my way through everything on the menu.

The star of the show? The breakfasts.

Let me preface this by saying that I am decidedly not a breakfast person. I could very easily skip breakfast most days. Brunch bores me — I’m an awful millennial, I know.

However, Turkish breakfasts are a thing of beauty and at no point in my entire month in Turkey did I have a better breakfast than my three days at the Marmara.

When I wasn’t sunning myself or gorging on breakfast, I was sampling wine. For research, you see.

Let it be known that I am a huge wine geek. As in, Jancis Robinson is kind of my role model, and I’ve read at least four or five books about the different wine varietals in my day. Hey, I’m from California. Wine is in my blood.

I didn’t know much about Turkish wine, but when The Marmara arranged a tasting of their own proprietary wine label, Vinkara Wines for me…. I was there, no questions asked.

One of my favorite things about Vinkara Winery is that they’re really putting a focus on Turkish native varietals, rather than jumping on the international varietal trend.

Sure, they have all the popular varietals – a Sauv Blanc, a Cab, a Syrah, a Chardonnay – but that’s not where their focus or their passion is. Instead, they’re focusing on revitalizing Turkish grapes that have fallen a bit by the wayside.

Winemaking in Turkey has fallen out of style, mostly because it’s so hard to turn a profit. Alcohol is taxed at extremely high rates, meaning that winemakers don’t have much of a margin to earn from. As a result, most of the grapes in Turkey are sold just as grapes or raisins, rather than turned into wine.

But for those winemakers who do brave the Turkish market and make wine anyway, the results are fantastic.

Narince is one of those grapes that had been nearly falling out of favor – but luckily winemakers are slowly bringing it back.

In the right hands, it’s absolutely delicious — full-bodied, structured, and complex with a lovely acidity to brighten it. A clear favorite for me.

Their red wine was also a favorite: Kalecik Karasi. Light in body like a pinot, full in flavor like a cabernet, but something all its own.

The same grape is also used to make their fantastic sparkling wine (little do people know, most champagnes and sparkling wines are made primarily with red wine grapes — they just remove the skins from making contact so that the color remains white-ish)

This is exactly why I believe so much in winemakers who nurture the forgotten grapes back to prominence. I had the pleasure of meeting with local winemakers in Emilia Romagna, Italy, who were doing the exact same thing, with equally delicious results.

After a few glasses of wine, I started to get lost in thought (as one does after several glasses of wine). I realized that what makes the world of wine so magical is the variety. If we coax every wine into tasting the same based on international standards… we risk diluting the beautiful diversity that makes wine so unique. The flavors and aromas hidden inside these little-known grapes are like living history. We must preserve it or risk losing it.

Just as travel helps us be more tolerant and appreciative of diversity, a good wine helps us appreciate the importance of soil and history.

I’ll drink to that.

Want to read more Turkey? Check out these things to do in Alanya, Turkey.

Note: I received a complimentary stay at The Marmara during my time in Bodrum. All opinions and wine hangovers are my own.